
Professional Dutch Kink coach / Dominatrix
The Lady Lux
“The Lady Lux” is a sophisticated and highly professional Role play specialist / Kink Coach / Dominatrix whose reputation extends across multiple international publications.
Nineteen years of experience
She entered the fetish world as a Domme when she was eighteen years old, accumulating a wealth of experience over the past nineteen years.
Based in Capelle aan den IJssel, Netherlands
Milady Lux
The titles ‘Lady’ or ‘Milady,’ are not just random social media monikers; In addition to her sophistication and style, she is genuinely of noble lineage. She is a descendant of a notorious Dutch lord, her ancestors maintained possession of a castle for 156 years. Regarding the other branch of her family she is a descendant of a viscount. Unlike her infamous forefather who tormented ‘witches,’ she reserves punishment exclusively for those who crave and require it.

The Lady Lux only engages in sessions that she personally finds enjoyable, and she takes pleasure in collaborating with her subs and clients in unique therapeutic ways. While she can be stern and even sadistic, she also demonstrates empathy, fostering an environment where you can freely express yourself.
Lux as a multi faceted therapist: Besides being a Pro Domme she also works as a therapist/coach and sexologist, her practice spans across a broad array experience. She specializes in trauma therapy and also religious trauma therapy (especially for ex Jehovah’s Witnesses), grief counseling, she coaches individuals with gender exploration and transition and she is a kink coach one on one and for couples. Her diverse expertise allows her to provide a comprehensive approach to mental health, catering to a vast range of personal challenges and journeys.
She facilitate kink coaching sessions where individuals and couples can talk freely about their interests and desires regarding BDSM.
Please note, Lux is not an escort. Her sessions do not incorporate any form of sexual activities.
Sessions in real life
For more details about session options, please visit the "Sessions" page.
Application process
Please note that not everyone will be granted a in real life session. It is mandatory to undergo an intake process via email before any booking is confirmed.
If you would like to be considered, please send her a polite motivation message that introduces yourself and explains why you desire to be dominated by her.

In real life session
Lux offers a wide range of in-person sessions, from introductory experiences and roleplay to her signature Maid and Butler training. She also provides classes for couples, and more.
Full details can be found on the session page.
For more info send an email to:
submit@theladylux.com

Feminisation and Crossdressing
Exploring Gender Transformations ( in real life option )
Renowned for her skills as a gender transformation specialists, she wants people to feel free to explore their gender feelings in BDSM sessions with her. Utilizing feminization not as punishment, but as a tool to shift mindsets and elevate experiences, she upholds a clear ethos of embracing the exploration of gender identity. If you’re seeking an environment that solely uses feminization as a form of sexualization, you’ll need to look elsewhere.
Stepping in her studio you will find a beautiful pink makeover room, filled with personally selected outfits, shoes, wigs, breast forms, jewelry, makeup, and much more. There is also a spacious crossdress walking closet with lots of options to choose from.

Online coaching
Online Kink coaching Solo and for couples 150,-
These session are via her coaching practice to freely talk about your kink journey. And get the support you need to take the next steps from Lux who is a certified coach and sexuological counselor with many years of experience.
Online gender exploration and transition coaching 150,-
Lux is a genderexploration and transition coach at Coaching by Lux. But also a stylist and MUA at her company Trans Makeover. If you seek help on your journey regarding MtF you can book a online session.
For more info send an email to:
submit@theladylux.com
Additional services
As a gender transformation stylist, makeup artist and coach she also runs two other companies, a makeover service Trans Makeover Mtf & FtM and a coaching service Trans Academy with one day personalise lessons to help you become more feminine with your crossdressing or transition. She also works as a therapist & coach at Coaching by Lux
Lux her other services
|| Please note that my other companies services do not involve BDSM ||
- For kink coaching, sexological counseling or mental health coaching, visit: www.coachingbylux.com
- For MtF & FtM makeover with photoshoot, visit: www.transmakeover.com
- For MtF gender expression and transition classes, visit: www.transacademy.net
Are you ready to surrender to The Lady Lux?
Please note, Lady Lux selectively chooses her clients, ensuring an ideal match for every session. The preliminary consultation is conducted via email. When reaching out, be certain to compose a courteous and detailed self-introduction.
